Sims 4 Devious Desires: Why This Controversial Mod Is Still Being Talked About

Sims 4 Devious Desires: Why This Controversial Mod Is Still Being Talked About

If you’ve spent any time in the darker corners of the Sims modding community, you’ve probably heard the name ColonolNutty. Specifically, you’ve heard about a mod called Sims 4 Devious Desires. It’s not the kind of thing you find on the official forums, and for good reason. Honestly, it’s one of the most polarizing pieces of custom content ever made for the franchise. While some players see it as a tool for extreme realism or niche roleplay, others—including Electronic Arts themselves—have labeled it as something much more problematic.

You’ve likely seen the screenshots or the hushed Discord conversations. It’s a mod that pushes the boundaries of a "Teen" rated game until those boundaries basically don't exist anymore. But what actually is it? And why did EA take the unprecedented step of publicly threatening to ban anyone caught with it?

What exactly is the Devious Desires mod?

At its core, Devious Desires is a framework mod. It doesn't just add one or two items; it overhauls how Sims interact with their environment and each other in ways that the base game never intended. Most people compare it to WickedWhims, but that’s not quite right. While WickedWhims focuses on adult romance and "bedroom" activities, Devious Desires leans heavily into power dynamics, restraints, and extreme roleplay.

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It’s technical. Very technical. The mod includes an "Animation Layering" system that lets you combine different poses, facial expressions, and hand movements on the fly. You can literally adjust individual bones in a Sim's skeleton during an animation. For most casual players, that sounds like a nightmare of menus and sliders. For the hardcore RP community, it was a level of control they couldn't get anywhere else.

The feature list that raised eyebrows

The mod’s creator, ColonolNutty, built a system that included:

  • A "Dong" system: (Yes, that’s what they called it) with full physics and customization.
  • Restraint mechanics: Items like handcuffs and other binding tools that actually functioned.
  • Carry scenes: The ability to pick up other Sims in various styles and move them around.
  • Consent settings: A menu designed to toggle what types of interactions were allowed by specific Sims.

It sounds like a lot because it is. But the technical "wizardry" isn't why the mod became infamous. It was the content that players started creating using those tools that landed it in hot water.

The controversy that broke the internet (and EA's patience)

Back in early 2021, the Sims world exploded. A series of reports and "call-out" threads started circulating about certain mods—including Devious Desires—that allegedly included or allowed for content involving minors and animals.

EA doesn't usually talk about mods. Their standard policy is "use at your own risk." But this was different. On February 22, 2021, the official Sims Twitter account posted a statement that sent shockwaves through the community. They didn't name names, but they didn't have to. They stated that mods containing "deeply disturbing content" were a violation of the User Agreement. The kicker? They threatened permanent account bans for players using them.

It was a mess. ColonolNutty and other creators defended their work, claiming that the "illegal" content was the result of how players used the tools, not the tools themselves. But for many, the line had already been crossed. The mod was pulled from major sites, and for a while, it seemed like it might disappear entirely.

Is Devious Desires still around in 2026?

Sorta. You won't find it on CurseForge or ModTheSims. Those sites have strict "Positive Play" guidelines. However, the mod still exists on independent hosting sites and private Patreons. As of the latest January 2026 game patch (1.120), the mod is still being updated by its creator, though it’s much more underground than it used to be.

If you’re looking to install it, you basically have to be prepared for the risks.

  1. Security risk: Downloading files from non-verified sites is always a gamble.
  2. Stability: Because it touches so many base game files (like ab_human_male and sk_human_skeleton), it breaks constantly when EA updates the game.
  3. Account risk: While EA isn't actively scanning every player's hard drive, using a mod that they have explicitly flagged as "disturbing" is a risk to your entire Origin/EA app library.

How it compares to other adult mods

If you’re just looking to spice up your game, there are safer, more "standard" options that don't carry the same baggage.

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WickedWhims is the gold standard for a reason. TurboDriver, the creator, has a professional relationship with the community and keeps the content strictly focused on adult Sims. It’s polished, it has its own dedicated community, and it’s generally considered "safe" by the community at large.

Nisa’s Wicked Perversions is another alternative that adds darker gameplay elements (like the "Succubus" trait) without veering into the territory that got Devious Desires banned. It’s definitely adult-only, but it stays within the realm of what's considered "acceptable" in the underground modding scene.

Basemental Drugs focuses on a completely different side of adult life—substances and gangs. It’s incredibly well-made and, while technically against EA's "Teen" rating, it hasn't faced the same legal or ethical backlash because it doesn't involve the same type of sensitive content.

Should you actually use it?

Honestly? Probably not. Unless you are specifically looking for the extreme roleplay mechanics and the bone-by-bone animation control, the hassle outweighs the reward. Most players find that the sheer number of menus in Sims 4 Devious Desires makes the game feel more like a spreadsheet than a life simulator.

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Plus, the community's shift toward "ethical modding" means that a lot of the best custom content creators won't make animations or items that are compatible with it. You'll end up with a broken, buggy game and a very real fear that your account might get nuked.

Moving forward with your mod folder

If you're dead set on trying it, or any "extreme" mod, there are a few things you should do to protect your game.

Backup your saves. I cannot stress this enough. These mods rewrite how Sims move. If the mod breaks after a patch, it can corrupt your save files to the point where they won't open even after you delete the mod.

Check the "Mod Data" folder. One weird quirk of ColonolNutty’s mods is that they often require a specific file structure. You usually have to move a folder called mod_data directly into your main Sims 4 directory, not just the Mods folder. If you don't do this, the mod simply won't load.

Stay updated on the EA Forums. There is a massive, ongoing thread on the EA Forums titled "Broken and Updated Sims 4 Mods." It’s updated almost daily by community members like luthienrising. If a mod is declared "unsupported" or "malicious," that's where you'll hear about it first.

The world of Sims modding is incredible, but it has its dark alleys. Devious Desires is one of them. Whether it's a tool for creative expression or a bridge too far is a debate that's been going on for years. Just make sure you know exactly what you're putting into your game folder before you hit "Save."

Check the compatibility of your current animation packs. Most mainstream animators have moved away from supporting DD-specific tags. If you install it, you might find your Sims standing in a T-pose more often than actually doing anything "devious." Stick to verified creators on Patreon or itch.io to keep your game running smoothly and your account safe.