Colman Domingo is having a massive moment. Between the Oscar buzz for Sing Sing and his iconic, cape-wearing appearances at the Met Gala, the man is everywhere. But if you’ve watched him on a red carpet lately, you’ve probably noticed the handsome, slightly more reserved man standing just a few inches away. That’s Raúl Domingo.
Honestly, in a town like Hollywood where "starter marriages" and three-month flings are the norm, these two are an anomaly. They’ve been together for twenty years. Twenty. That’s a lifetime in industry years. But what most people don’t realize is that Raúl isn’t just some "plus-one" or a quiet husband waiting in the wings. He’s basically the engine behind the scenes of Colman's empire.
The Walgreens "Missed Connection" That Actually Worked
You know those "Missed Connections" ads on Craigslist that everyone used to laugh at back in the mid-2000s? The ones where someone writes, "You were wearing a red hat at the deli, I was the guy with the bagel"? Yeah, most of those lead to nothing. Except for Colman and Raúl.
It was 2005. Colman was in Berkeley, California, just minding his business, walking into a Walgreens. He saw a man walking out—long hair, lip piercing, total vibe. They locked eyes. There was a spark, but Colman was on the phone, and Raúl was with a friend who seemed to be in a rush. They didn't speak. They just... passed.
Colman couldn't stop thinking about him. A few days later, he’s on Craigslist trying to buy a used computer, and he decides to peek at the Missed Connections section. There it was. A post titled: “Saw you outside of Walgreens, Berkeley.”
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Raúl had posted it just two hours before.
They met up three days later for a date at a bar in San Francisco. It wasn't just a "let's see where this goes" kind of night. Colman has admitted that by 4:00 a.m. that very same night, he looked at Raúl and told him, "I think I love you and you’re about to change my life." Talk about calling your shot.
More Than Just Colman Domingo’s Partner: The Producer Powerhouse
While Colman is the face, Raúl is often the hands. They aren't just partners in life; they are business partners. They co-founded Edith Productions, a company that is quickly becoming a major player in the indie film world.
If you loved the sci-fi thriller It’s What’s Inside on Netflix or the critically acclaimed Sing Sing, you’re looking at Raúl’s work. He doesn't just sit in the trailers. He’s a producer. He’s a writer. He’s even been known to shadow Colman on set when Colman is directing—like on the upcoming series The Four Seasons.
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Raúl’s background is actually pretty varied:
- Art and Design: He’s worked with high-end fashion houses like Lanvin and the Max Mara Group.
- Costume Design: Early in their relationship, Colman got a gig in Alaska. Instead of doing long distance, Raúl grabbed a job as an assistant costume designer on the same shoot just to be near him.
- Aviation: Weirdly enough, he’s also a pilot.
The "Secret" 2014 Wedding
By the time they decided to get married in 2014, they had already been a "married couple" in every sense of the word for nine years. So, they didn't do the big, bloated Hollywood wedding.
They invited 25 people to a house party in California. No one knew it was a wedding. Colman showed up in a Hawaiian shirt. They walked in and just said, "Welcome to our wedding." They danced until four in the morning. It was low-key, unpretentious, and focused on the people they actually liked—which basically sums up their entire relationship.
Why Their Relationship Matters in 2026
In an era where celebrity "shipping" is a full-time job for fans, the Domingos stay remarkably grounded. Raúl’s Instagram is private. He’s not out there chasing clout or trying to become an influencer. He’s building a legacy with his husband.
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When Colman won his Emmy for Euphoria in 2022, he dedicated it to Raúl. He didn't just give a generic thank you. He called him his "darling Raúl" and made it clear that "a lot of kindness" brought him to that stage. That kindness is clearly the foundation of their home life.
How to Apply the "Domingo Method" to Your Own Life
If you’re looking at them and thinking, "I want that," there are a few real-world takeaways from how they handle their partnership:
- Work Together, but Keep Boundaries: They collaborate on huge films, but they also have their own lanes. Raúl produces; Colman acts and directs. They support without suffocating.
- Serendipity Requires Action: They met by chance, but the relationship only happened because Raúl took the "embarrassing" risk of posting on Craigslist and Colman took the risk of responding.
- Privacy is a Power Move: By keeping their private life mostly offline (except for the occasional high-fashion red carpet appearance), they’ve protected their bond from the "comment section" toxicity that ruins so many famous couples.
If you’re following Colman’s career, keep an eye on the credits of his next few projects. You’ll see the name Raúl Domingo more and more. He isn't just the man behind the man; he's the partner building the stage the world is currently watching.
Next Steps for Fans:
Keep an eye out for the upcoming Netflix series The Four Seasons. It’s a huge project where Colman stars and directs, but if you look at the production credits, you’ll see Raúl’s influence all over the creative direction and production side of the house.