She’s finally done it. Naomie Olindo, the woman we all watched navigate the messy, high-stakes drama of Southern Charm, is officially off the market. And honestly? It feels like the plot twist nobody saw coming, yet somehow makes perfect sense. On a random Sunday in late December 2025, Naomie dropped the bombshell on Instagram: she’s engaged to Billy Haire.
The photos were stunning. Low-key, but stunning. A boardwalk in Charleston, a ring that probably costs more than my car, and two very happy dogs. She captioned it, “The luckiest girl in the whole wide world.” But if you’re like most people, you probably did a double-take at the name. Billy Haire isn’t exactly a Bravo household name, but his backstory? It’s a whole situation.
Who exactly is Billy Haire?
So, who is this guy? Billy Haire isn't just some random Charleston local. He’s a heavy hitter in the New York advertising world. Currently, he’s the Senior Vice President of Digital Sales and Partnerships at Minute Media. Basically, he’s a guy with a "real" job, which is something Naomie has always been pretty vocal about wanting.
He’s got the credentials to match. He played lacrosse at Bucknell—classic—and later snagged an MBA from NYU Stern. He’s 39, which puts him just a few years older than Naomie, who is 33. But the real kicker for the gossip mill? His ex-wife.
Billy was previously married to Sports Illustrated model Brooks Nader. They tied the knot in a massive New Orleans wedding back in 2019. For a while, they were the "it" couple of the NYC social scene. But by May 2024, the news broke that they were splitting up. It was "amicable," or so the publicists said. Brooks has since moved on with her own high-profile flings, and Billy? Well, he found his way to Charleston.
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The timeline that raised eyebrows
People love to track dates, and this one is juicy. Billy and Brooks announced their divorce in May 2024. Fast forward just about a year, and rumors started swirling that Billy was spending a lot of time in South Carolina. By June 2025, Naomie made it "Instagram official" by tucking him into a photo dump.
Sources close to the couple say they had actually been dating for months before that post. It turns out, Naomie didn’t want to rush things into the spotlight after her previous relationship disasters. Remember Metul Shah? The guy she moved to NYC for, only to break up with him days later because of cheating rumors? Yeah. She learned her lesson.
Why this relationship feels different
Honestly, if you’ve followed Naomie since her early days with Craig Conover, you know she’s had a rough run. With Craig, it was constant bickering about his "lack of direction" (ironic, now that he’s basically the king of pillows). With Metul, it was a total blindside.
But with Billy? Even Craig Conover is giving his blessing. On a recent episode of Watch What Happens Live, Craig mentioned that his friends in LA knew Billy and Brooks and had nothing but good things to say. He basically said she’s in "really good hands." When your ex-boyfriend of three years—who you had a very "combustible" relationship with—gives the thumbs up, you know it’s legit.
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The proposal on the boardwalk
The engagement itself was very... Naomie. It wasn't some over-the-top, televised Bravo stunt. It happened on a boardwalk in Charleston, surrounded by nature and their dogs. One of the pups in the photos was Olive, Naomie's long-time companion.
It felt grounded. It felt like someone who is finally content with a life away from the cameras. Even though she returned for Season 8 of Southern Charm, Naomie has been pivoting more toward her business, L'Abeye, and her family’s restaurant empire. Billy fits into that world. He’s successful, he’s private (his Instagram is locked down tight), and he seems to adore her.
What's next for the couple?
Don't expect a televised wedding. Seriously. Naomie has been there, done that, and bought the t-shirt. While her former co-stars like Madison LeCroy and Leva Bonaparte were screaming in her comments with excitement, Naomie seems focused on a life that doesn't require a film crew.
They’ve already been traveling the world together—Jamaica in August, France earlier in the year. They’re building a life that looks a lot more like a "normal" successful couple and a lot less like a reality TV plotline.
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What you can learn from Naomie’s pivot:
- Privacy is a luxury: After years of public breakups, Naomie kept Billy under wraps for months. It worked.
- Vetting matters: Taking the time to ensure a partner’s values align with your "real life" goals saves a lot of heartache.
- Exes can be allies: You don't always have to be at war. Craig’s maturity in supporting her new relationship shows that moving on is the best revenge.
If you're following the Charleston social scene, keep an eye on the local wedding venues. But don't be surprised if the actual ceremony stays behind closed doors. Naomie has finally found her "hubby," and this time, she's keeping the best parts for herself.
Next steps for fans: If you want to see more of Naomie’s life post-Bravo, her lifestyle brand L'Abeye is where she’s most active. You won’t find much on Billy’s private socials, so sticking to her occasional "life lately" posts is your best bet for more engagement content.