If you’ve been keeping an eye on the halls of power in Washington lately, you’ve probably noticed a tall, sharp-looking guy standing right next to the U.S. Attorney General. People have questions. Specifically, is Pam Bondi married to John Wakefield, or are they just the ultimate political power couple?
Honestly, the answer is a little more nuanced than a simple "yes" or "no," mostly because the people involved haven't exactly held a press conference to clear it up. But we have plenty of clues from 2025 and 2026 that tell the real story.
The Viral Moment: "Her Very Handsome Husband"
The rumor mill went into overdrive during Bondi’s swearing-in ceremony in early 2025. It was a high-stakes day. Supreme Court Justice Clarence Thomas was administering the oath. Donald Trump was there, doing what he does best—extemporizing.
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While introducing the people in the room, Trump pointed to John Wakefield and called him Bondi’s “very handsome husband.”
He didn't stop there. He joked about how he hates being around Wakefield because the guy "looks too good." Trump went on to praise their "beautiful relationship."
Naturally, the internet exploded. If the President calls someone a husband at an official White House event while they're holding the Bible for the oath of office, you'd assume they're married, right? Well, maybe. In the world of high-level politics, "husband" can sometimes be shorthand for "long-term partner who is basically family."
So, Did They Actually Get Married?
As of 2026, there is no public record of a marriage certificate for Pam Bondi and John Wakefield. They haven't confirmed a secret wedding, and they haven't corrected the "husband" label either.
They’ve been a "thing" since at least 2017.
The first time the public really got a glimpse of them was a selfie Bondi posted at a Bruno Mars concert. Since then, Wakefield has been a constant. He’s been at White House Christmas parties, Tampa Bay Buccaneers games, and every major political milestone in her recent career.
Wakefield himself isn't a politician. He’s a heavyweight in the private equity world and a founder of a firm. He’s also a father of three, and by all accounts, Bondi is very close with his kids. On social media, they look like a solid, long-term unit. Whether they’ve signed the legal paperwork or are just living the "domestic partner" life, they are effectively a married couple in the eyes of their social circle.
The Long Road: Pam Bondi’s Relationship History
To understand why people are so obsessed with her current status, you have to look at the history. Bondi has been down the aisle before.
- Garret Barnes (1990–1992): Her first marriage was to Garret Barnes. They were young, and the marriage lasted about 22 months.
- Scott Fitzgerald (1996–2002): Her second marriage lasted significantly longer—about six years—before ending in divorce.
- The Greg Henderson "Wedding" Mystery: This is where things got weird. In 2012, Bondi was engaged to ophthalmologist Greg Henderson. They flew to the Cayman Islands for what everyone thought was a destination wedding. Photos leaked of Bondi in a white dress at the Ritz-Carlton. However, Bondi later told reporters it wasn't a wedding, but a "celebration of upcoming nuptials" that were supposed to happen later in a Baptist church. Those nuptials never happened, and the couple eventually split.
Because of that "almost-wedding" in the Caribbean, Bondi has been much more guarded about her private life. It makes sense that she’d want to keep the specifics of her relationship with Wakefield under wraps.
Who is John Wakefield, Anyway?
Wakefield isn't just "the guy on her arm." He’s a successful businessman who has managed to stay largely out of the tabloid drama.
- He is a founder of a private equity firm.
- He’s been a "tremendous factor" in Bondi's life, according to those close to her.
- He clearly has the "Vegas" seal of approval—he’s comfortable in the high-pressure environment of D.C. hearings and Oval Office meetings.
Forbes even noted in 2025 that Bondi's personal fortune has seen a boost, partly attributed to her successful lobbying career and her relationship with a wealthy partner. They’re a team, both personally and financially.
Is Pam Bondi Married to John Wakefield Today?
Technically, they are widely referred to as domestic partners. But when you’re standing in the Oval Office, holding the Bible for the Attorney General of the United States, and the President calls you "husband," the distinction starts to fade.
Basically, if you’re looking for a wedding gallery in People magazine, you won't find one. But if you’re looking for a committed, long-term partnership that has survived the meat-grinder of Florida and D.C. politics for nearly a decade, this is it.
What to Watch For Next
If you're following Bondi's career as Attorney General, don't expect a big wedding announcement. She’s focused on the Department of Justice. However, keep an eye on:
- Official Disclosures: As a high-ranking government official, her financial disclosures might eventually shed more light on her legal marital status.
- Social Media: She still posts snippets of their life. If a ring suddenly appears or she starts using the "H-word" herself, that’ll be your confirmation.
- Public Appearances: Wakefield will likely continue to be a fixture at state dinners and official functions.
Whether they have the "piece of paper" or not, it’s clear John Wakefield is the most stable and significant partner Pam Bondi has had in her public life.