You know that feeling when you're flipping through cable channels in December and you see Vince Vaughn towering over Reese Witherspoon in a chaotic living room? That’s Four Christmases. It’s a staple now. But back in 2008, this movie was basically a lightning rod for behind-the-scenes gossip that still follows it today.
People love a good "they hated each other" story. It makes the movie more interesting, right? But the reality of the movie with Vince Vaughn and Reese Witherspoon is a bit more nuanced than just two stars bickering over a paycheck. It’s a movie about the absolute dread of holiday obligations, and ironically, the production itself sounded like a bit of a slog.
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If you’ve ever seen a Vince Vaughn movie from the mid-2000s, you know his vibe. He’s the king of the "fast-talking, rambling, slightly-sweaty-but-charming" guy. He loves to ad-lib. He wants to find the funny in the moment. Then you have Reese Witherspoon. She’s a "type-A," Oscar-winning perfectionist who usually arrives on set with her lines memorized, her blocking figured out, and a plan for the day.
Put them together? It's like mixing oil and water. Or maybe like mixing a very expensive balsamic vinegar with a giant Gatorade.
Why rumors of a feud started
The tabloids at the time, specifically the NY Daily News, went wild with stories about their "creative differences." The narrative was simple: Reese wanted to rehearse; Vince wanted to wing it.
- The Rehearsal Rift: Reports claimed Reese was frustrated because Vince would show up looking like he just rolled out of bed, while she was camera-ready and wanting to block out scenes.
- The Scrapped Scene: There’s a long-standing rumor that a scripted "steamy" sex scene was cut because they just weren't feeling it. Instead, we got that awkward bathroom role-play scene at the beginning.
- The Red Carpet: Fans noticed they didn't exactly look like best friends during the press tour.
Honestly, though? Most of this is just two professionals having very different workflows. You've probably worked with someone who drives you nuts but you still get the job done. That’s Four Christmases in a nutshell.
Is Four Christmases actually a "flop"?
People call it a disaster because the critics hated it. It has a 25% on Rotten Tomatoes. Critics like Roger Ebert basically said it was a "death march" of a movie. But here’s the thing: it wasn't a flop. Not even close.
It opened at #1 over Thanksgiving weekend. It stayed at #1 for a second week. By the time it left theaters, it had raked in over $160 million on an $80 million budget. In Hollywood math, that’s a win.
The supporting cast carried the weight
One reason the movie works—despite the leads maybe not wanting to grab a beer together after filming—is the insane supporting cast. Seth Gordon, the director, managed to pull in four Oscar winners to play the parents:
- Robert Duvall (The grumpy dad with the "jump-jump" brothers)
- Sissy Spacek (The mom who's now dating Vince's childhood friend)
- Jon Voight (The "refined" dad who reveals the big secret)
- Mary Steenburgen (The mom who’s rediscovered her sexuality at a mega-church)
When you have Jon Favreau and Tim McGraw playing Vince’s MMA-obsessed brothers, the movie stops being a rom-com and starts being a weird, aggressive family study.
The "Propaganda" Debate
If you look at modern reviews on Reddit or Letterboxd, people have some thoughts about the ending. The movie starts with Brad and Kate (Vince and Reese) being happily child-free and unmarried. They lie to their parents so they can go to Fiji and drink margaritas. They’re "selfish" but they're happy.
By the end? They’re married with a baby.
Some viewers find this annoying. They see it as 2008-era propaganda saying you can’t be truly happy unless you have a kid and a mortgage. Others argue it’s just a standard "character arc." Kate sees the chaos of family and realizes she actually wants a piece of it. Whether you think it’s a heartwarming evolution or a betrayal of the characters depends entirely on how much you hate your own relatives on December 25th.
Why it’s still on your TV every year
So, why does the movie with Vince Vaughn and Reese Witherspoon still get so much airtime?
It's relatable.
Even if you don't have four families to visit, everyone knows that specific anxiety of being treated like a child by your parents when you're 35. Seeing Vince Vaughn—a guy who is 6'5"—get tackled by his brothers in a house that feels way too small for him is funny because it's real. Reese Witherspoon getting puked on by a baby is a universal fear.
It’s a "safe" holiday movie. It’s got enough edge to keep adults interested but it’s fundamentally about the fact that family is a mess you can't really escape.
If you’re planning a rewatch
If you decide to throw this on tonight, keep an eye out for the "Nativity Play" scene. It’s arguably the funniest part of the movie. Vince as Joseph, trying to navigate a church play while his brother-in-law (played by Dwight Yoakam) stares him down? That’s pure comedic timing that doesn't require "chemistry"—it just requires two funny people being uncomfortable.
How to actually enjoy Four Christmases
Don't go into it expecting When Harry Met Sally. It's not that kind of movie.
- Focus on the parents: The four different "houses" are like four mini-movies. Robert Duvall’s segment is the best, hands down.
- Look for the cameos: Peter Billingsley (Ralphie from A Christmas Story) has a small role and was actually a producer on the film.
- Ignore the "hate" rumors: Just watch the performances. They’re both pros. Even if they didn't like each other, they sell the "long-term couple" vibe surprisingly well.
Next steps for your movie night: If you’re a fan of the "chaotic family holiday" sub-genre, your next move should be watching The Family Stone or Christmas with the Kranks. They pair perfectly with the cynical-yet-sweet energy of the Vaughn-Witherspoon classic.