If you’ve spent any time on TikTok or following the post-NFL career of New England's favorite clutch receiver, you probably saw the headlines. Danny Amendola and Xandra Pohl. It felt like the ultimate crossover. You have a two-time Super Bowl champion and a high-energy DJ/influencer who basically built an empire out of her "get ready with me" videos.
The internet was convinced.
Honestly, the evidence was everywhere. They were spotted together at Tom Brady’s Patriots Hall of Fame induction in June 2024. Then, Xandra was front and center in the Dancing with the Stars audience, sitting right next to Danny’s mom, Rose. In the world of celebrity gossip, sitting with the mom is basically the equivalent of a marriage proposal.
But as we stand here in early 2026, the dust has finally settled. If you’re looking for a wedding announcement or a "hard launch" on Instagram, you’re going to be waiting a long time.
The Rumors That Took Over the Internet
It started with a few sightings. Danny is 38, retired from the league, and famously private—or at least, he tries to be. Xandra is 24, a Sports Illustrated Swimsuit model, and her entire life is essentially public.
When they showed up at Gillette Stadium together, people lost it. Dave Portnoy from Barstool Sports basically stated it as fact on his podcast. He said they were dating. Case closed, right? Not exactly.
The speculation hit a fever pitch during Danny’s run on Dancing with the Stars Season 33. Watching Xandra clap and cheer alongside Danny’s mother gave the rumors some serious legs. People weren't just guessing anymore; they were looking for the ring.
Why everyone believed it
- The Proximity: They were constantly in the same VIP sections.
- The Family Connection: Sitting with Rose Amendola is a huge "tell" in most relationships.
- The Timing: Both were fresh out of high-profile situations. Xandra had recently ended a long-term relationship with Jack Touzet.
Danny Amendola Sets the Record Straight
Danny eventually broke his silence, and he didn't exactly give the fans what they wanted. He told E! News that Xandra is just a "great friend."
He was pretty emphatic about it. He called himself a huge fan of hers and said it was just good to have a friend like her in his corner. Now, we've all heard that before in Hollywood. Sometimes "just friends" is code for "we're dating but I don't want the paparazzi at my house."
But Danny has a history with this. He dated Olivia Culpo for years, and that relationship was messy, public, and seemingly exhausting for him. He’s gone on record saying he hates the "social media" aspect of modern dating. He wants a boundary between his life and the screen.
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Xandra, on the other hand, is the screen.
Xandra Pohl’s "Single Era" Confirmation
By July 2025, Xandra decided she had enough of the whispers. In an exclusive interview with People, she confirmed she was "very much on the market."
She didn't just say she wasn't dating Danny; she said she didn't want to be tied down by anyone. She talked about how her career is her entire focus right now. She’s touring, DJing, and modeling. She even used the word "feral" to describe how she wanted her summer to be. Basically, she’s in her "hot girl summer" phase and a serious relationship with a retired NFL star just didn't fit the vibe.
"I honestly don't know if I could handle a relationship at this moment," she said. That’s a pretty clear "no" on the Danny Amendola front.
What Most People Get Wrong
The biggest misconception here is that there had to be drama. In the world of TikTok sleuths, if two people stop being seen together, there must have been a "cheating scandal" or a "falling out."
With Danny and Xandra, it looks like it was just... friendship. Or maybe a brief "situation-ship" that naturally fizzled out because their lifestyles are polar opposites. Danny lives a quiet life in Austin. Xandra is traveling the world, playing sets at the biggest clubs, and filming every second of it.
The Age Gap and the Lifestyle Clash
Let's be real. There’s a 14-year age gap. That’s not a dealbreaker for everyone, but when you’re 24 and your career is exploding, you usually aren't looking to settle down with a guy who’s already done it all and just wants to play golf and do the occasional reality show.
Danny’s past relationships with women like Olivia Culpo and Jean Watts always seemed to struggle with the spotlight. Xandra is the spotlight. It’s hard to imagine Danny, who famously ranted about privacy in the past, being comfortable with a partner who vlogs their morning coffee.
The Actionable Truth for Fans
If you're still holding out hope for these two, it's time to move on. Here is the reality of where things stand:
- Follow the Sources: Xandra has explicitly stated she is single. Don't believe the "blind items" on DeuxMoi over the person's own words.
- Respect the Privacy: Danny Amendola has consistently asked for a boundary between his personal life and his public persona. He’s unlikely to ever give a play-by-play of his dating life.
- Focus on the Careers: Xandra is at the top of her game in the DJ world. Danny is transitioning into the next phase of his life, whether that’s coaching, TV, or just enjoying retirement.
The connection between them was a fun moment in pop culture history, but it wasn't the love story the internet tried to write. They’re two successful, attractive people who enjoy each other’s company. Sometimes, it’s really just that simple.
If you want to keep up with them, follow Xandra’s TikTok for the latest in her "single era" adventures and keep an eye on Danny’s occasional media appearances. Just don't expect them to be in the same frame anymore.
Next Steps for You: Check out Xandra Pohl’s latest tour dates if you want to see her live sets, or look into Danny Amendola’s recent sports commentary work to see how he's staying involved with the NFL post-retirement.